Well here we go again.
This afternoon I had an appointment with Dr. Bahl, an oncologist. His news was sobering. He went over the findings from the surgery where a 3.2 cm tumor was removed. It is considered a very low grade slow moving cancer and the path reports show they cut with clear margins getting all of the tumor cells. However that is not the end of the story.
Turns out that when this very specific tumor is larger than 2 cm then removing a part of the colon is the standard practice. He says it is not urgent but should be done in the next 2 months time. This time there will be a scar since they want to have a clear view of what is taking place inside. That also means longer recovery time, how exciting. So I walked out having to work through more thoughts about my mortality. Now Nan would have been quick to put it in perspective but at this point I have to move forward on my own.
This evening I'm enjoying some calmer weather. I've had white caps on the lake all day and high winds buffeting the house. I've had a fire burning but there are enough places around the dog door where outside air slips in that there are drafts everywhere. Yet Starr and I have stayed warm enough.
I'm considering having Starr put to sleep tomorrow. Her life is miserable, she can't do anything and is totally dependant on me, I don't mind the duty but soon I'll be gone for a few days and she would be so miserable with me away. This morning when I put her on her fresh pad she looked up at me for several moments, I could just see her saying, do I have to endure another boring day? It will be one of the harder things I ever had to do as Starr has been in the middle of our lives for the last 14 years, through it all she has been there, on the bed, on the recliner, at our heels, at the table begging, barking, warning, chasing the cats, attacking Jazz, our full size Golden who lives next door. Starr has been a great traveler in the motorhome, a great hiking buddy and a loyal friend. Why oh why does life toss us these terrible choices?
On another front my IPHONE is dead this evening. I'm not sure what happened. I had it with me at the doctors, then when I got a hair cut and finally when I was talking to Nikki as I drove home, then at Subway but when I reached for it it was totally dead, plugging it in did not help, its just dead.; Suddenly my business contacts, my friends everything is up in the air. So I guess I'll be checking in at the AT&T store in the morning to see what needs to happen next. Funny how much these little devices become a part of our life. I had to call Nikki to reach Jason tonight as I didn't know his home number.
I would appreciate your prayers as I wade through this maze of cancer, surgery, holding the business together, getting work completed and finding my way to better health.
Love to all
Tim
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
Tuesday, November 29, 2011
Handicapped
Good evening
It is now the evening of the second day and my hand is less in the air now. I've labored today to get things written but only managed to ship out 2 reports. working with one finger takes a lot of extra time to be sure.
The night went really well, yes i did wake often since I had my hand elevated on a pillow but each time I went right back to sleep. At 6 the alarm jarred me out of bed and i woke to a cold world. So I built a one handed fire which seemed to catch and roar just the same as a two handed fire. Before long the house was warm. Then it was time for oatmeal, stripples and a banana.
The rest of the day was spent here in this lovely office with Starr. I managed to tidy things up a bit and then settled down to work. Steve came by to assist with a couple files and let his dogs swim. They barked and enjoyed themselves in the lake in spite of the cold.
Now its time to wind down. Tomorrow I see an oncologist as a follow up to the tumor that was discovered during the surgery. He will have the results of the CT scan from last Friday or was it monday.
My hand is healing quickly, nothing seeping through the bandages so far. Its a challenge to type with the bandage in the way but it does not come off until Friday the 9th.
I've kept a fire going all day today. I have this wonderful wood stack of oak wood which burns amazingly well. Very thankful for it.
So now its time to wind it up for the day.
Love to all,
Tim
It is now the evening of the second day and my hand is less in the air now. I've labored today to get things written but only managed to ship out 2 reports. working with one finger takes a lot of extra time to be sure.
The night went really well, yes i did wake often since I had my hand elevated on a pillow but each time I went right back to sleep. At 6 the alarm jarred me out of bed and i woke to a cold world. So I built a one handed fire which seemed to catch and roar just the same as a two handed fire. Before long the house was warm. Then it was time for oatmeal, stripples and a banana.
The rest of the day was spent here in this lovely office with Starr. I managed to tidy things up a bit and then settled down to work. Steve came by to assist with a couple files and let his dogs swim. They barked and enjoyed themselves in the lake in spite of the cold.
Now its time to wind down. Tomorrow I see an oncologist as a follow up to the tumor that was discovered during the surgery. He will have the results of the CT scan from last Friday or was it monday.
My hand is healing quickly, nothing seeping through the bandages so far. Its a challenge to type with the bandage in the way but it does not come off until Friday the 9th.
I've kept a fire going all day today. I have this wonderful wood stack of oak wood which burns amazingly well. Very thankful for it.
So now its time to wind it up for the day.
Love to all,
Tim
Monday, November 28, 2011
its over
hi
this will be brief as it is done with left hand.
surgery went well, very quick, now im to hold my hand above my heart for two days. not so easy to do.
glad its over, now learning to do everything with left hand!
Ray and Lois were great help today. Ray was here at 8, stayed at the hospital waiting for me.
We then drove to Orinda and did a drivebay appraisal. Then we found Applebees for some great food, then drive him, Ray at the wheel, I'm sitting there trying to remember to keep my hand elevated.
Got home, got in Motorhome and I drove with Ray as wingman to Pittsburg to get windows replaced. Lois drove a backup car and we then headed home.
this evening been talking to Jerry, Marilyn and Art, now heading to bed and will try to figure out how to keep hand elevated above heart.
Love to all, yes there is pain but Im glad its finished,
love
tim,
this will be brief as it is done with left hand.
surgery went well, very quick, now im to hold my hand above my heart for two days. not so easy to do.
glad its over, now learning to do everything with left hand!
Ray and Lois were great help today. Ray was here at 8, stayed at the hospital waiting for me.
We then drove to Orinda and did a drivebay appraisal. Then we found Applebees for some great food, then drive him, Ray at the wheel, I'm sitting there trying to remember to keep my hand elevated.
Got home, got in Motorhome and I drove with Ray as wingman to Pittsburg to get windows replaced. Lois drove a backup car and we then headed home.
this evening been talking to Jerry, Marilyn and Art, now heading to bed and will try to figure out how to keep hand elevated above heart.
Love to all, yes there is pain but Im glad its finished,
love
tim,
Sunday, November 27, 2011
Waiting for the pain
Well here I am, its 10 pm and I've been running all day. Managed to see three homes, all large and challenging. The weather was gray, chilly and dismal but the properties were OK.
The coughing is so bad that this evening the headache is present. Wish it could be solved and soon.
Tomorrow morning Ray and I drive to Walnut Creek so I can face the surgeon, he is going to make a little cut in the palm of my hand, slice a small piece of something inside and that is supposed to solve the trigger finger. Oh it was so tempting to just click the cancel button when the reminder popped up from Kaiser, put it off until another time but why! The pain is so bad that it gets my attention all the time. Opening doors is a challenge, driving hurts, holding the measuring wheel is pretty awful so this is one of those times when a person just walks forward, you hate everything about the event you are facing but you just walk forward and grin and bear it.
Jerry called tonight, he's had lots of stuff done to his hands but of course he is much older than I am so thats to be expected!! He'll like that comment. He could not remember much about the time when his trigger thumb was fixed.
I'll fill you in more tomorrow night. meanwhile I have this huge stack of reports to get written up and soon.
Sending my best thoughts for your upcoming week!
Love
tim
The coughing is so bad that this evening the headache is present. Wish it could be solved and soon.
Tomorrow morning Ray and I drive to Walnut Creek so I can face the surgeon, he is going to make a little cut in the palm of my hand, slice a small piece of something inside and that is supposed to solve the trigger finger. Oh it was so tempting to just click the cancel button when the reminder popped up from Kaiser, put it off until another time but why! The pain is so bad that it gets my attention all the time. Opening doors is a challenge, driving hurts, holding the measuring wheel is pretty awful so this is one of those times when a person just walks forward, you hate everything about the event you are facing but you just walk forward and grin and bear it.
Jerry called tonight, he's had lots of stuff done to his hands but of course he is much older than I am so thats to be expected!! He'll like that comment. He could not remember much about the time when his trigger thumb was fixed.
I'll fill you in more tomorrow night. meanwhile I have this huge stack of reports to get written up and soon.
Sending my best thoughts for your upcoming week!
Love
tim
Saturday, November 26, 2011
A really terrific day
Not that I can give you all the details but lets just say this has been a pretty good day! This morning Nikki had the girls all dressed in pretty dresses and we went to Sabbath School. Keanna was thrilled that Sylvia was back from her trip so was very excited about going. Kallie always enjoys Sabbath School and there were other children there too. She sort of participates at her own direction but loves the action parts of the program. And of course snack time is a favorite too.
Keanna made Kallie a hot chocolate at the refreshment center and the seemed to please her. Keanna cannot drink one due to her allergies but was sweet enough to make her sister a drink. Kallie drained it in no time. Keanna had gotten to have Sylvia all to herself for the first part of the program being the only child there at the time.
Finally the girls went to the car and we headed out for Burger King. The girls played a bit but mostly settled down to eat. At noon I delivered them to their mother right in the middle of her wrapping presents. Oh did I forget to all and warn her, whoops, my bad.
I took it easy this afternoon and built a fire, started a loaf of bread baking and this evening enjoyed time with a good friend, the bread dinged at just the right time and got to taste it, came out good once again. The Heritage Singers were doing the vesper program at the Loma Linda Church and the programing was very nice through the dish. Then this evening Art called to say they were in Loma Linda this afternoon and saw the huge crowd of people at the church. They didn't know it was the Heritage Singers. Art and Connie are enjoying some days at their home in the desert, taking long hikes in the morning up a steep mountain and loving the 80 degree weather.
I'm trying to complete as much work as I can before the Monday surgery. I tend to believe that the surgery will slow me down for a few days, not good yet I'm so anxious to get the repair work completed as I'm in pain quite a bit now in the whole hand.
So for now I just thanking the Good Lord for His blessings, my brother Jerry for the firewood, my good friends for sharing time, Nikki and Steve for sharing Keanna and Kallie for Sabbath School.
Love to all,
Tim
Keanna made Kallie a hot chocolate at the refreshment center and the seemed to please her. Keanna cannot drink one due to her allergies but was sweet enough to make her sister a drink. Kallie drained it in no time. Keanna had gotten to have Sylvia all to herself for the first part of the program being the only child there at the time.
Finally the girls went to the car and we headed out for Burger King. The girls played a bit but mostly settled down to eat. At noon I delivered them to their mother right in the middle of her wrapping presents. Oh did I forget to all and warn her, whoops, my bad.
I took it easy this afternoon and built a fire, started a loaf of bread baking and this evening enjoyed time with a good friend, the bread dinged at just the right time and got to taste it, came out good once again. The Heritage Singers were doing the vesper program at the Loma Linda Church and the programing was very nice through the dish. Then this evening Art called to say they were in Loma Linda this afternoon and saw the huge crowd of people at the church. They didn't know it was the Heritage Singers. Art and Connie are enjoying some days at their home in the desert, taking long hikes in the morning up a steep mountain and loving the 80 degree weather.
I'm trying to complete as much work as I can before the Monday surgery. I tend to believe that the surgery will slow me down for a few days, not good yet I'm so anxious to get the repair work completed as I'm in pain quite a bit now in the whole hand.
So for now I just thanking the Good Lord for His blessings, my brother Jerry for the firewood, my good friends for sharing time, Nikki and Steve for sharing Keanna and Kallie for Sabbath School.
Love to all,
Tim
Friday, November 25, 2011
Working ranchettes today!
Good evening,
First off I must mention that I received an email from Karen, a middle american friend who Nan often communicated with through the GIST world. When Karen writes I always just stop everything and enjoy her thought out words. Her email today was so special and encouraging. Words can be like wonderful presents, wrapped with care and delivered at just the right time.
I call my sister Sibyl but her daughter answered. Sibyl has been through some pretty rough times lately and is back in the Intensive care after being moved to a rehab hospital. We nearly lost her and only through intense work did they bring her back. I know she would love to know we are praying for her. She lives in Ohio and has demonstrated a real passion for life.
Today was a day of seeing little farms. Last week a gentleman had called seeking an appraisal of two little properties with about an acre each. He had called a lady appraiser but she was too busy to get back to him and didn't want to deal price wise at all. Not so wise in the current world. Anyway we struck up a nice friendship today and I enjoyed seeing the two properties. Then I had an order for a purchase of a property on a single acre so at noon I did that one. The seller was an older guy, recently remarried who was moving to the 55 and over subdivision here in Brentwood. A young couple was buying the ranch and they are getting a steal. Yes there will be work cleaning up the grounds but the home is secure and well kept. The guy was really funny and I hated to leave.
Then I set to work to shoot the comparables for all three properties. It took a couple hours but I just started in Oakley and worked my way down through Brentwood, Knightsen and finally Byron. The nice thing was that the first two were paid for on the spot! Funny how that always urges one forward, the thrill of being paid!
Well now the Sabbath hours have arrived. In a few minutes I think I'll get to have dinner with Nikki and girls at UNOs, yes I'm heading for the soup, so good.
I'm seeing properties on Sunday in anticipation of my Monday surgery. Not sure how well I'll be able to work or type after the finger gets its little surgery but it needs to happen. The pain is really quite intense at times and opening doors or making a fist is now out of the question at times.
Ray has consented to go with me to the surgery in Walnut Creek on Monday morning, hate to make him get up so early as he often stays up late at night but I do appreciate the lift. The paperwork says I should have someone drive me and then it says I could probably drive myself, OK so which is it? We are being careful.
I hope you enjoy your weekend with family, friends and your Maker. Oh what a mess this world is in and I can only imagine how much He wants to bring his children home.
Love to all,
Tim
ps A nice thing happened today. The guy I met this morning for the first two properties works at the local cemetary, where Nan rests and he said he could create a little device that will mark the spot where she is laid so we can know exactly the right place when we visit. That will help until we can manage a marker.
First off I must mention that I received an email from Karen, a middle american friend who Nan often communicated with through the GIST world. When Karen writes I always just stop everything and enjoy her thought out words. Her email today was so special and encouraging. Words can be like wonderful presents, wrapped with care and delivered at just the right time.
I call my sister Sibyl but her daughter answered. Sibyl has been through some pretty rough times lately and is back in the Intensive care after being moved to a rehab hospital. We nearly lost her and only through intense work did they bring her back. I know she would love to know we are praying for her. She lives in Ohio and has demonstrated a real passion for life.
Today was a day of seeing little farms. Last week a gentleman had called seeking an appraisal of two little properties with about an acre each. He had called a lady appraiser but she was too busy to get back to him and didn't want to deal price wise at all. Not so wise in the current world. Anyway we struck up a nice friendship today and I enjoyed seeing the two properties. Then I had an order for a purchase of a property on a single acre so at noon I did that one. The seller was an older guy, recently remarried who was moving to the 55 and over subdivision here in Brentwood. A young couple was buying the ranch and they are getting a steal. Yes there will be work cleaning up the grounds but the home is secure and well kept. The guy was really funny and I hated to leave.
Then I set to work to shoot the comparables for all three properties. It took a couple hours but I just started in Oakley and worked my way down through Brentwood, Knightsen and finally Byron. The nice thing was that the first two were paid for on the spot! Funny how that always urges one forward, the thrill of being paid!
Well now the Sabbath hours have arrived. In a few minutes I think I'll get to have dinner with Nikki and girls at UNOs, yes I'm heading for the soup, so good.
I'm seeing properties on Sunday in anticipation of my Monday surgery. Not sure how well I'll be able to work or type after the finger gets its little surgery but it needs to happen. The pain is really quite intense at times and opening doors or making a fist is now out of the question at times.
Ray has consented to go with me to the surgery in Walnut Creek on Monday morning, hate to make him get up so early as he often stays up late at night but I do appreciate the lift. The paperwork says I should have someone drive me and then it says I could probably drive myself, OK so which is it? We are being careful.
I hope you enjoy your weekend with family, friends and your Maker. Oh what a mess this world is in and I can only imagine how much He wants to bring his children home.
Love to all,
Tim
ps A nice thing happened today. The guy I met this morning for the first two properties works at the local cemetary, where Nan rests and he said he could create a little device that will mark the spot where she is laid so we can know exactly the right place when we visit. That will help until we can manage a marker.
Thursday, November 24, 2011
Thanksgiving 2011
How strange it felt to wake to a quiet house on Thanksgiving morning. For many years I would wake to the smell of pies baking, cottage cheese loaf cooking, the kitchen would be full of light and heat, various pieces of equipment would be strewn about, rolling pins, apple peeling machines, pots and pans, deep fryer etc. And the TV would be showing the Macy parade with the balloon flying high, marching orders would be given as to setting the table, making sure things were ready.
Instead of bustling joyous activity there was nothing. The phone range cracking the silence, Ken wanted to walk, well why not so we did our thing around the lake in the morning air. Then it was back to a shower and building a fire and settling down in the office to see if I could get some work completed.
Early afternoon I headed out to Tracy but stopped by Starbucks for a peppermint mocha, they have a special one that has only 100 calories and its great. Then I drove to Jill and Roger's place, a friendly bunch of people where Steve spent part of his growing up years. They are lovely people and Jill is a very special lady with so much love for kids, her kids, her grandkids our kids. She makes the day. The food was great and that was fun.
Finally I drove home and finished the appraisal I was to complete yesterday morning when I discovered the crashed computer. Got to admit I worked slow and this evening I've been able to complete the report and get it emailed to the client. This one is from an organization called Service Master, they provide leads for people who might need an appraisal. Many of the leads are worthless but two have turned into appraisals so far.
So another Thanksgiving has slipped by and I honestly don't know what to think, to do about moving forward with a relationship. I've found that to be fair to them they have to be given quite a bit of time and when the choice is between finding someone and producing work, well so far I've just gone with work. I guess one comes to a place where they find it very hard to even consider that there might be someone out there that would be attracted to me, would get past my rough exterior to the love I am capable of sharing. So of course it is easier to do nothing, to take no chances than to step out and risk. While I don't enjoy being alone I've not been willing to do what it takes to find someone yet.
I am thankful for the work load this fall has brought, for having Steve to work with me, for the joy of the kiddos. I just love to hear Timothy on the phone or even Mia doing her baby messages to pappa.
Well tomorrow has more appointments to deal with and I even have one on an island now, you only get there by ferry, that should be fun and challenging, there is no address, only directions how to find it and how to slip by the fence for access. Should be interesting.
Well until another morning breaks, love to all
Tim
ps so thankful for Jim's help yesterday, while my computer is not perfect it is totally useable thanks to his efforts.
Instead of bustling joyous activity there was nothing. The phone range cracking the silence, Ken wanted to walk, well why not so we did our thing around the lake in the morning air. Then it was back to a shower and building a fire and settling down in the office to see if I could get some work completed.
Early afternoon I headed out to Tracy but stopped by Starbucks for a peppermint mocha, they have a special one that has only 100 calories and its great. Then I drove to Jill and Roger's place, a friendly bunch of people where Steve spent part of his growing up years. They are lovely people and Jill is a very special lady with so much love for kids, her kids, her grandkids our kids. She makes the day. The food was great and that was fun.
Finally I drove home and finished the appraisal I was to complete yesterday morning when I discovered the crashed computer. Got to admit I worked slow and this evening I've been able to complete the report and get it emailed to the client. This one is from an organization called Service Master, they provide leads for people who might need an appraisal. Many of the leads are worthless but two have turned into appraisals so far.
So another Thanksgiving has slipped by and I honestly don't know what to think, to do about moving forward with a relationship. I've found that to be fair to them they have to be given quite a bit of time and when the choice is between finding someone and producing work, well so far I've just gone with work. I guess one comes to a place where they find it very hard to even consider that there might be someone out there that would be attracted to me, would get past my rough exterior to the love I am capable of sharing. So of course it is easier to do nothing, to take no chances than to step out and risk. While I don't enjoy being alone I've not been willing to do what it takes to find someone yet.
I am thankful for the work load this fall has brought, for having Steve to work with me, for the joy of the kiddos. I just love to hear Timothy on the phone or even Mia doing her baby messages to pappa.
Well tomorrow has more appointments to deal with and I even have one on an island now, you only get there by ferry, that should be fun and challenging, there is no address, only directions how to find it and how to slip by the fence for access. Should be interesting.
Well until another morning breaks, love to all
Tim
ps so thankful for Jim's help yesterday, while my computer is not perfect it is totally useable thanks to his efforts.
Interesting day
Today has gone from disaster to success. Knowing I have trigger finger surgery coming on the 28th and not knowing how it will effect my ability to write report I've been trying to do as much as I can with very little down time, that is social time, relaxing time, even exercising time.
For example today I rose at 5 am, showered and came down to discover my computer had crashed. A spyware had infected it and turned every file in the entire computer to read only and then hid them all. Drive C did not work properly, the speed of the hard drive was wrong. I had planned to write a much needed appraisal for a Milpitas property but that did not happen. For some reason I had forced myself to do all the research for today's work last night so I was ready on that score.
At around 7 I started peppering my great IT guy with text messages, emails sent from my phone letting him know I needed his help. He ended up working all day on my computer and managed to restore some of the functions. Enough I think to get work completed. He worked from his own home office by remote until my computer cut him off, then he came here and worked for hours.
Meanwhile I say a nice little place in Richmond Annex, a tiny neighborhood that is bordered by freeway 80 and 580. The homes are cute, nicely maintained and they have views of the bay. After completing that one I decided to see if I could talk my way into a second Richmond property that I was supposed to see at 4 this afternoon. So I knocked and explained and the renter was very kind and let me do the work at 10 instead of having to drive back. Once I was done there I found a Taco Bell for the bathroom and some burritos. I drove to Oakley to a little but nice development where people paid $700K for homes and they are now selling as short sales for $370. The home was huge, 3,800sf and it was cold outside, backed to a little lake. The occupants were the people losing the house but they were very nice to work with.
After I had shot some of the comps I headed for the next Oakley appointment so I could be on time. Imagine my surprise when the people said, no we cancelled the appraisal, it was news to me and I was irritated. Eventually I found out they cancelled the appointment at 1:45 but since the person who was the go between had strep throat there was a break in communication. They agreed to pay me an inspection fee and I moved on.
After shooting the comps for the appraisal of the big house I drove to Kaiser for blood work. While they are good it still takes time. Meanwhile I was staying in touch with Jim to see how the computer repair work was progressing. The blood work went well and they drew out 4 vials, wow I miss that blood!
About an hour later I called the nurse to find out if I could resume taking Glucophage and after wading through several levels of a voice tree I finally talked to a nurse. Once you get there on the phone they are terrific. Yes I could resume my meds and could they do anything else? So I told her of the blood sugar levels running too high and that the cough was worse. She wrote it all up and emailed it to my Doctor. While I was talking to her I was measuring yet another home here in Discovery Bay, nice place, horrible location, it sides busy Highway 4 and has constant traffic noise. Who would really want to live there? I know I have to be fair and objective but, who would want to live there?
After I finished measuring the house I came home and figured out how the computer was working, pretty good. Then I remembered that I had intended to drive to Rohnert park and get the spa heater! So I loaded up and headed out. The traffic was light, the trip easy and amazingly the spa heater fit in the back of the bug, wow it was tight and close.
Now I'm home and it seems most days are not really boring, lots of challenges, issues, deadlines, travel, medical issues. And sometimes I get to see my cute little grandchildren, that is the best thing about life. Jesus has granted me these 4 precious little ones, all different, all bright and all totally fun.
Happy Thanksgiving and love to all,
Tim
For example today I rose at 5 am, showered and came down to discover my computer had crashed. A spyware had infected it and turned every file in the entire computer to read only and then hid them all. Drive C did not work properly, the speed of the hard drive was wrong. I had planned to write a much needed appraisal for a Milpitas property but that did not happen. For some reason I had forced myself to do all the research for today's work last night so I was ready on that score.
At around 7 I started peppering my great IT guy with text messages, emails sent from my phone letting him know I needed his help. He ended up working all day on my computer and managed to restore some of the functions. Enough I think to get work completed. He worked from his own home office by remote until my computer cut him off, then he came here and worked for hours.
Meanwhile I say a nice little place in Richmond Annex, a tiny neighborhood that is bordered by freeway 80 and 580. The homes are cute, nicely maintained and they have views of the bay. After completing that one I decided to see if I could talk my way into a second Richmond property that I was supposed to see at 4 this afternoon. So I knocked and explained and the renter was very kind and let me do the work at 10 instead of having to drive back. Once I was done there I found a Taco Bell for the bathroom and some burritos. I drove to Oakley to a little but nice development where people paid $700K for homes and they are now selling as short sales for $370. The home was huge, 3,800sf and it was cold outside, backed to a little lake. The occupants were the people losing the house but they were very nice to work with.
After I had shot some of the comps I headed for the next Oakley appointment so I could be on time. Imagine my surprise when the people said, no we cancelled the appraisal, it was news to me and I was irritated. Eventually I found out they cancelled the appointment at 1:45 but since the person who was the go between had strep throat there was a break in communication. They agreed to pay me an inspection fee and I moved on.
After shooting the comps for the appraisal of the big house I drove to Kaiser for blood work. While they are good it still takes time. Meanwhile I was staying in touch with Jim to see how the computer repair work was progressing. The blood work went well and they drew out 4 vials, wow I miss that blood!
About an hour later I called the nurse to find out if I could resume taking Glucophage and after wading through several levels of a voice tree I finally talked to a nurse. Once you get there on the phone they are terrific. Yes I could resume my meds and could they do anything else? So I told her of the blood sugar levels running too high and that the cough was worse. She wrote it all up and emailed it to my Doctor. While I was talking to her I was measuring yet another home here in Discovery Bay, nice place, horrible location, it sides busy Highway 4 and has constant traffic noise. Who would really want to live there? I know I have to be fair and objective but, who would want to live there?
After I finished measuring the house I came home and figured out how the computer was working, pretty good. Then I remembered that I had intended to drive to Rohnert park and get the spa heater! So I loaded up and headed out. The traffic was light, the trip easy and amazingly the spa heater fit in the back of the bug, wow it was tight and close.
Now I'm home and it seems most days are not really boring, lots of challenges, issues, deadlines, travel, medical issues. And sometimes I get to see my cute little grandchildren, that is the best thing about life. Jesus has granted me these 4 precious little ones, all different, all bright and all totally fun.
Happy Thanksgiving and love to all,
Tim
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Short
Dear Family and Friends,
Beat, going to bed, long day with lots of fun, Keanna was here. She made grocery list and we went shopping, interesting to see the world from an 8 year old perspective. Great way to meet grandmothers, they all thought it was cute that we were shopping. Got yams, potatoes, tomatoes, beans, apples, oranges, asparagus, soft dog food for Starr.
Tonight had dinner with Kallie and Nikki, always fun.
More later, happy Thanksgiving, I'm finding life pretty challenging right now, blood sugar out of control, not enough time to catch my breath it seems.
Love
tim
Beat, going to bed, long day with lots of fun, Keanna was here. She made grocery list and we went shopping, interesting to see the world from an 8 year old perspective. Great way to meet grandmothers, they all thought it was cute that we were shopping. Got yams, potatoes, tomatoes, beans, apples, oranges, asparagus, soft dog food for Starr.
Tonight had dinner with Kallie and Nikki, always fun.
More later, happy Thanksgiving, I'm finding life pretty challenging right now, blood sugar out of control, not enough time to catch my breath it seems.
Love
tim
Monday, November 21, 2011
Checks
After a week, a very dry week income wise today the dam burst. I went to the bank with a deposit that was larger than many entire months income. I was humbled, excited and relieved. One check was the largest I've received in several years and another was the largest that company had ever sent. So for another month the house payment is made and I can even buy groceries again.
In the morning I'll be at Nikki's door at 6:30 as Steve is out of town helping a friend and the girls need to get to school, have breakfast and face the day. Then Keanna will come with me for the day. I mostly am working in so that should not be a problem. I hope to get the motorhome to the glass repair guy tomorrow to get that process started.
There is a subtle feeling that creeps in when you don't have enough money to even buy fuel for the car, a quiet despair seeps into your thinking and nearly everything that comes to mind has to be set aside because there is no money to do it. Before I drove to an appointment this afternoon in Milpitas I raided the bank and found about $7 of coins that I took with me just in case. Then the mail finally arrived and with it the grip around my chest loosened and things took on a nicer hue.
I have been so blessed this fall with the amount of work that has come in and STeve and I have both benefitted from the work.
This morning at 6:45 I started drinking banana smoothies, yep, the contrast for the CT scan, then at 7:45 I had yet another one, same delicious taste! At 8:45 I was in the waiting room at Kaiser and at 9:15 I was still in the waiting room, finally I went in and settled in on the lovely couch in front of the big circle, the CT scanner. After dropping my drawers and my arm she slipped an iv in and we were set to go. The whole process only takes 10 minutes but its not really bad and my co pay was just $50, with no credit cards available I wrote a check! And they took it!
Now I drop by on Wednesday for blood work so I can resume Metaformin, seems what they inject and some drugs can be hard on the liver. Then sometime soon I see the oncologist and then the surgeon for the trigger finger and then someone else. Great system, love it and I'm thankful to be on board.
Friend Art called a few minutes ago, sounded a bit tired after being in SF for the day with son Matt. Sometimes it can be a lot of hard work having fun!
Love to all
Tim
In the morning I'll be at Nikki's door at 6:30 as Steve is out of town helping a friend and the girls need to get to school, have breakfast and face the day. Then Keanna will come with me for the day. I mostly am working in so that should not be a problem. I hope to get the motorhome to the glass repair guy tomorrow to get that process started.
There is a subtle feeling that creeps in when you don't have enough money to even buy fuel for the car, a quiet despair seeps into your thinking and nearly everything that comes to mind has to be set aside because there is no money to do it. Before I drove to an appointment this afternoon in Milpitas I raided the bank and found about $7 of coins that I took with me just in case. Then the mail finally arrived and with it the grip around my chest loosened and things took on a nicer hue.
I have been so blessed this fall with the amount of work that has come in and STeve and I have both benefitted from the work.
This morning at 6:45 I started drinking banana smoothies, yep, the contrast for the CT scan, then at 7:45 I had yet another one, same delicious taste! At 8:45 I was in the waiting room at Kaiser and at 9:15 I was still in the waiting room, finally I went in and settled in on the lovely couch in front of the big circle, the CT scanner. After dropping my drawers and my arm she slipped an iv in and we were set to go. The whole process only takes 10 minutes but its not really bad and my co pay was just $50, with no credit cards available I wrote a check! And they took it!
Now I drop by on Wednesday for blood work so I can resume Metaformin, seems what they inject and some drugs can be hard on the liver. Then sometime soon I see the oncologist and then the surgeon for the trigger finger and then someone else. Great system, love it and I'm thankful to be on board.
Friend Art called a few minutes ago, sounded a bit tired after being in SF for the day with son Matt. Sometimes it can be a lot of hard work having fun!
Love to all
Tim
Sunday, November 20, 2011
The Fires Glow
This morning I just rolled out and into the tennis shoes Roger and Carol provided long ago. They worked fine but the weather was just a big cold. It was sunny but about 40 degrees. Since Ken had not called I just went by myself and I'm glad I did. There is something about just getting out into fresh air.
Once home I made oatmeal, used my last banana and microwaved a couple Stripples. With Breakfast out of the way I hit the shower, a time I really enjoy very much.
I came down and set to work after building a fire. I've kept that fire going all day and what was so nice this morning was the hot coals left from last night. Using Oak the fire lasts a very long time and the coals soon had the new wood roaring.
I wish I could say I've accomplished a lot today but that would be a lie. I've filed stacks of files, set up orders, cleared up my desk and written reports, just not as many as I should of by now. This evening I've been enjoying some past episodes of Bones and was shocked to discover that the main character is quite pregnant. I think I may have missed some episodes inbetween.
At the point I have all the laundry completed and put away, the sheets on my bed are clean, the dishwasher is running and the kitchen is tidy. In the morning I start off at 6:45 by drinking a lovely quart of contrast, then at 7:45 I drink a second quart and at 8:45 I have the CT scan. They hopefully on time I'll check with Steve and perhaps Keanna can come back home with me and Steve can be on his way to see a house in Walnut Creek. The really nice thing that has happened is that Steve is getting work from his own clients, that has been a very long time dream for me, that Steve would have his own clients, he is just an outstanding appraiser, honest, gentle with the homeowners and a hard worker and to see him get his foot into the door is very exciting.
I woke today to find I was shut out from my main client. I pay a $10 fee for each order that comes through Appraisal Port, a clearing house and on the 15th I have to pay for the prior month's orders, well this time it was $200, that is I've had 20 orders. Only problem I did not have $200 in any of my accounts and they had shut me out until I paid on line. What to do? I tried a couple credit cards but no go, finally I put in the business account numbers and it went through. Now that means I need to find money in the next day to cover the charge but perhaps tomorrow is my lucky day for some funds to show up. I know by Wednesday I'll get a large check that will set everything right again for awhile. Its just the inbetween that is costing me overdraft charges right now. Not fun.
At this point I'm turning in, I don't stay up well anymore, I get tired, sleepy, eyes get scratchy and I just nod off.
The CT scan tomorrow is of my chest and I hope yet I'm concerned about what they will find. I would love to be rid of this cough, its been extra bad that last two days, why, I can't put a finger on it after several days of much less coughing. Why!
Take care and lets work together to have a week of thanksgiving and peace in our lives. God is so good to us in spite of the challenges we face. I'm so thankful to have all of you in my life.
Love
tim
Once home I made oatmeal, used my last banana and microwaved a couple Stripples. With Breakfast out of the way I hit the shower, a time I really enjoy very much.
I came down and set to work after building a fire. I've kept that fire going all day and what was so nice this morning was the hot coals left from last night. Using Oak the fire lasts a very long time and the coals soon had the new wood roaring.
I wish I could say I've accomplished a lot today but that would be a lie. I've filed stacks of files, set up orders, cleared up my desk and written reports, just not as many as I should of by now. This evening I've been enjoying some past episodes of Bones and was shocked to discover that the main character is quite pregnant. I think I may have missed some episodes inbetween.
At the point I have all the laundry completed and put away, the sheets on my bed are clean, the dishwasher is running and the kitchen is tidy. In the morning I start off at 6:45 by drinking a lovely quart of contrast, then at 7:45 I drink a second quart and at 8:45 I have the CT scan. They hopefully on time I'll check with Steve and perhaps Keanna can come back home with me and Steve can be on his way to see a house in Walnut Creek. The really nice thing that has happened is that Steve is getting work from his own clients, that has been a very long time dream for me, that Steve would have his own clients, he is just an outstanding appraiser, honest, gentle with the homeowners and a hard worker and to see him get his foot into the door is very exciting.
I woke today to find I was shut out from my main client. I pay a $10 fee for each order that comes through Appraisal Port, a clearing house and on the 15th I have to pay for the prior month's orders, well this time it was $200, that is I've had 20 orders. Only problem I did not have $200 in any of my accounts and they had shut me out until I paid on line. What to do? I tried a couple credit cards but no go, finally I put in the business account numbers and it went through. Now that means I need to find money in the next day to cover the charge but perhaps tomorrow is my lucky day for some funds to show up. I know by Wednesday I'll get a large check that will set everything right again for awhile. Its just the inbetween that is costing me overdraft charges right now. Not fun.
At this point I'm turning in, I don't stay up well anymore, I get tired, sleepy, eyes get scratchy and I just nod off.
The CT scan tomorrow is of my chest and I hope yet I'm concerned about what they will find. I would love to be rid of this cough, its been extra bad that last two days, why, I can't put a finger on it after several days of much less coughing. Why!
Take care and lets work together to have a week of thanksgiving and peace in our lives. God is so good to us in spite of the challenges we face. I'm so thankful to have all of you in my life.
Love
tim
Saturday, November 19, 2011
Low Key Sabbath
Dear Family and Friends,
I woke early this morning with several financial problems dancing through my mind. Knowing it was early I dismissed them all and turned over for a bit more sleep.
At 9 I was at the gym to watch Keanna take to the floor in her basketball uniform. It was so cute watching the little ones scamper around trying to dribble, not fall, not go out of bound. Only a couple of the girls on each team had enough power to actually shoot a basket but they all tried. It was great fun to see her in action and Kallie was so full of energy, she can't wait to get on the floor and do her thing. She will be a force to contend with.
I had dressed for church so I left the gym but ended up spending time on the playground with the girls pushing them on swings and watching their little antics. Once I neared Tracy I looked up to discover it was 11:50 and church would be over by the time I arrived. So I consoled myself by going to Sonic and having a cheese sandwich and ice tea, driving home the scenic way. Once home I went over and visited Ray and Lois and then watched the Christian Dish programing for several hours. Some of the stuff was b o r i n g. I really tire of the same old topics repeated on several of the channels but there were good programs with interesting things to say. One was amazing, Dr. McDougal was on the show along with an author who had written a book about autism. They had discovered that by changing the diet, removing dairy and gluten the in a few days most of the behavior problems had cleared up and now the boy is 14 and lives a normal life, is an honor student.
This whole diet thing is very interesting. Because there is no money to be made in getting people to eating healthy normal stuff from the grocery store it does not get the same play as drugs and fancy medical solutions but I personally am more and more impressed that what we put in is what we become. How I want to spend a week in Santa Rosa at the live in program Dr. McDougal is having in December but I can't afford it, over a $1,000 for the program, plus hotel room or RV parking plus a week of work lost. The timing is just not right at this point.
This evening I went out and jammed a bunch of branches into garbage cans to sort of clear up the back yard area. felt good to do something with my hands thought the pain from the trigger finger was pretty intense. I had to be careful about lifting too much but I managed to get most of the brush put away.
Is it raining where you are tonight? My brother reports snow and wind in Weed and oh the storms can be pretty awful up there. He and Donna were staying put with a nice fire going to keep warm.
Sending love to all,
Tim
I woke early this morning with several financial problems dancing through my mind. Knowing it was early I dismissed them all and turned over for a bit more sleep.
At 9 I was at the gym to watch Keanna take to the floor in her basketball uniform. It was so cute watching the little ones scamper around trying to dribble, not fall, not go out of bound. Only a couple of the girls on each team had enough power to actually shoot a basket but they all tried. It was great fun to see her in action and Kallie was so full of energy, she can't wait to get on the floor and do her thing. She will be a force to contend with.
I had dressed for church so I left the gym but ended up spending time on the playground with the girls pushing them on swings and watching their little antics. Once I neared Tracy I looked up to discover it was 11:50 and church would be over by the time I arrived. So I consoled myself by going to Sonic and having a cheese sandwich and ice tea, driving home the scenic way. Once home I went over and visited Ray and Lois and then watched the Christian Dish programing for several hours. Some of the stuff was b o r i n g. I really tire of the same old topics repeated on several of the channels but there were good programs with interesting things to say. One was amazing, Dr. McDougal was on the show along with an author who had written a book about autism. They had discovered that by changing the diet, removing dairy and gluten the in a few days most of the behavior problems had cleared up and now the boy is 14 and lives a normal life, is an honor student.
This whole diet thing is very interesting. Because there is no money to be made in getting people to eating healthy normal stuff from the grocery store it does not get the same play as drugs and fancy medical solutions but I personally am more and more impressed that what we put in is what we become. How I want to spend a week in Santa Rosa at the live in program Dr. McDougal is having in December but I can't afford it, over a $1,000 for the program, plus hotel room or RV parking plus a week of work lost. The timing is just not right at this point.
This evening I went out and jammed a bunch of branches into garbage cans to sort of clear up the back yard area. felt good to do something with my hands thought the pain from the trigger finger was pretty intense. I had to be careful about lifting too much but I managed to get most of the brush put away.
Is it raining where you are tonight? My brother reports snow and wind in Weed and oh the storms can be pretty awful up there. He and Donna were staying put with a nice fire going to keep warm.
Sending love to all,
Tim
Friday, November 18, 2011
And the week winds down
I've just come from tucking the girls, Kallie and Keanna in for the night. Nikki called to see if I'd watch them while she and Steve went out to have dinner. Well I jumped at the chance, had no plans other than sit in the recliner, much more fun to observe the girls in action.
Kallie finally went to bed and she read the books to me tonight, an interesting combination of all the cartoon characters in her stories, precious, then she settled in under her soft blankets and I prayed for her and kissed her little head.
Later Keanna decided to turn in and she read to me from a kids Bible I gave her last Christmas. She says she reads from it every night, her reading is amazing, interesting, varied tones, expression, wow. I had to stop her and remind her of the first time she told me that she would read the book that night. Finally she settled in under the softest blanket in the world, just as her mom and day came home.
I've had a busy day, jumped up this morning after sleeping in, 8:30!! Had breakfast, STeve came by with the dogs who wisely stayed out of the cold water. Then I drove to Brentwood to see a property, then onto Kaiser to pick up contrast, no one had the prescription, someone had dropped the ball but 30 minutes later I had it in hand. Then I headed to Tracy to see a place, this one had grandma watching 2 year old twins, we had fun talking grandchildren. By the time I left Tracy it was time to eat so checking my wallet I found enough to cover soup and salad at Olive Garden. The food was perfect and I have 2 dollars left. Now if one or more of my lovely clients would pay up then I'd be back on easy street, right now I'm on the back alley until someone pays up. Oh well its the Sabbath now, time to move life a different direction.
On Monday morning I have a CT scan, I start drinking the lovely stuff at 6:30, then 7:30 and then the CT scan happens. I'll have blood work while I'm there too. On the 28th I'll have hand surgery on the trigger finger. Today has been a really bad day for coughing once again in spite of all the stuff I'm taking.
Sending love to all
Tim
Kallie finally went to bed and she read the books to me tonight, an interesting combination of all the cartoon characters in her stories, precious, then she settled in under her soft blankets and I prayed for her and kissed her little head.
Later Keanna decided to turn in and she read to me from a kids Bible I gave her last Christmas. She says she reads from it every night, her reading is amazing, interesting, varied tones, expression, wow. I had to stop her and remind her of the first time she told me that she would read the book that night. Finally she settled in under the softest blanket in the world, just as her mom and day came home.
I've had a busy day, jumped up this morning after sleeping in, 8:30!! Had breakfast, STeve came by with the dogs who wisely stayed out of the cold water. Then I drove to Brentwood to see a property, then onto Kaiser to pick up contrast, no one had the prescription, someone had dropped the ball but 30 minutes later I had it in hand. Then I headed to Tracy to see a place, this one had grandma watching 2 year old twins, we had fun talking grandchildren. By the time I left Tracy it was time to eat so checking my wallet I found enough to cover soup and salad at Olive Garden. The food was perfect and I have 2 dollars left. Now if one or more of my lovely clients would pay up then I'd be back on easy street, right now I'm on the back alley until someone pays up. Oh well its the Sabbath now, time to move life a different direction.
On Monday morning I have a CT scan, I start drinking the lovely stuff at 6:30, then 7:30 and then the CT scan happens. I'll have blood work while I'm there too. On the 28th I'll have hand surgery on the trigger finger. Today has been a really bad day for coughing once again in spite of all the stuff I'm taking.
Sending love to all
Tim
Thursday, November 17, 2011
Work
Through blurry eyes I write, Ken and I walked at 6:30, by 8 I was at my desk and I'm just leaving it now. During this day I've cranked out a whole lot of work and though I'm tired I've very satisfied with the efforts and the success. Walking helps so much, it wakes me up, gets things flowing again and I really appreciate Ken urging me to walk.
Tomorrow morning I drop by Kaiser and pick up the contrast I'll need for Monday mornings CT scan, the oncology group want a CT of the chest, they say it is routine when a tumor is found like the one they found by the appendix. Sure feels strange to be in this new place where I am the one with the tumor.
I am so thankful for so many things tonight and yet have such a yearning for a relationship. I honestly don't know how I would give it, her, any time though with working like I do.
Well one thing at a time, right now sleep is my goal, objective and I'm NOT walking tomorrow. Taking a day off so I can start work early instead.
Sending love to all,
Tim
Tomorrow morning I drop by Kaiser and pick up the contrast I'll need for Monday mornings CT scan, the oncology group want a CT of the chest, they say it is routine when a tumor is found like the one they found by the appendix. Sure feels strange to be in this new place where I am the one with the tumor.
I am so thankful for so many things tonight and yet have such a yearning for a relationship. I honestly don't know how I would give it, her, any time though with working like I do.
Well one thing at a time, right now sleep is my goal, objective and I'm NOT walking tomorrow. Taking a day off so I can start work early instead.
Sending love to all,
Tim
Wednesday, November 16, 2011
Working through it
Good evening
This was a great day, why? Well Keanna came to visit for the afternoon, did her homework, munched on popcorn, played with the laptop and my phone, caught up on some of her programs and relaxed a bit. What a fun kiddo.
After walking I've just kept myself confined to this desk chair, which is less and less comfortable as time passes, they tend to wear out!
As the day progressed I've managed to get several reports out and so far today they have all been accepted with no revisions requested, nice!
Some new orders came in which is always encouraging. I'm enjoying this time of year, I must admit partially due to the low cost of heating, cooling the house, the PG&E bills should plummet, they won't but they should.
I feel good and today was a day for calls from kaiser. An oncology nurse called today to give me her personal number if I have any questions or concerns, she said I need another CT scan of my chest, blood work and will see an oncologist soon. Later another call came in from GI department to tell me they will call on Friday to set up an appointment for that wonderful process of exploring, a colonoscopy! Yea I just can't wait. And of course on the 28th my finger gets operated on.
Still coughing but taking an unbelievable array of meds now, unbelievable, hope not to be doing this forever.
Well for now I think I need rest more than anything else so I'll let you go and take Starr up to her little blanket on my bed. We are winding down with Starr, soon I'll have to make the final decision and let her rest. Its not an easy thing to consider, she has been a part of our lives for about 14 years and added so much pleasure to all of us. I wonder if God keeps track of pets?
Love to all,
Tim
This was a great day, why? Well Keanna came to visit for the afternoon, did her homework, munched on popcorn, played with the laptop and my phone, caught up on some of her programs and relaxed a bit. What a fun kiddo.
After walking I've just kept myself confined to this desk chair, which is less and less comfortable as time passes, they tend to wear out!
As the day progressed I've managed to get several reports out and so far today they have all been accepted with no revisions requested, nice!
Some new orders came in which is always encouraging. I'm enjoying this time of year, I must admit partially due to the low cost of heating, cooling the house, the PG&E bills should plummet, they won't but they should.
I feel good and today was a day for calls from kaiser. An oncology nurse called today to give me her personal number if I have any questions or concerns, she said I need another CT scan of my chest, blood work and will see an oncologist soon. Later another call came in from GI department to tell me they will call on Friday to set up an appointment for that wonderful process of exploring, a colonoscopy! Yea I just can't wait. And of course on the 28th my finger gets operated on.
Still coughing but taking an unbelievable array of meds now, unbelievable, hope not to be doing this forever.
Well for now I think I need rest more than anything else so I'll let you go and take Starr up to her little blanket on my bed. We are winding down with Starr, soon I'll have to make the final decision and let her rest. Its not an easy thing to consider, she has been a part of our lives for about 14 years and added so much pleasure to all of us. I wonder if God keeps track of pets?
Love to all,
Tim
Tuesday, November 15, 2011
A Day in the my life
Up at 6:15 and ready to walk with Ken at 6:30. 41 degrees outside, time to locate the gloves!
Breakfast of cereal, soy milk and a slice of the bread I baked last night.
Do research for day
Leave for El Cerrito at 8:30, arrive in El Cerrito at 9:30, promised lock box key is NOT there, phone calls later I am given the code to a backup box, get the key and go in, find little house, 616 sf with promised 2 bedrooms actually has one bedroom with closet and a door that opens into the next so called bedroom but lacks a closet but which is connected to the only bathroom. House is selling for $92,000.
Drive around in less than ideal neighborhood and shoot photos, always interesting experience!
Leave on time for Pittsburg for second appraisal, nice home, teen age daughter greets me and offers to carry the ladder, I let her as I'm not supposed to be lifting yet. Nasty attitude found in dogs in the back yard, eat appraiser! Hope the lease holds for a bit longer, it does.
Non english speaking mother offers me some great tasting orange juice. I drink bribes, love them.
Then time enough for lunch, GPS says Burger King is near so have a vege burger, side salad and ice tea, tastes great.
Off to Kaiser but park in wrong lot so a long walk later I arrive at surgery, sign in, pay $30 and am called in a minute later.
Surgeon is informative, yes I had a tumor that was cancer, path shows they got all of it, he prints me out a copy but refers me to oncology and GI for colonoscopy, they will call for appointment, great, I just love to prepare for these special moments!
Back into the car, buy a cookie from snack shop in Kaiser. Drive to Disco Bay and find person home early for appointment, see house, shoot comps, drive to second house, find lovely owner, I mean a really terrific lady, they manage condo's in Maui, interesting world indeed. Perfect house, as I'm leaving she says, wish her mom lived closer, would love to have her meet me! Nice thought.
Dark now and home to fix a little dinner, make a smoothie and set to work again. Jerry calls, Ray drops by, I catch a bit of Miami CSI while eating.
Spend evening fixing little things that have come up with past reports, one needs the patio sketched in, another needs sale price changed as buyer and seller have agreed to lower the purchase price, no reason given, someone is contesting a value, why didn't we give them a higher appraisal? I'll take a hard look and probably find them a couple more dollars.
Cold call, my wonderful house keeper Tanya has referred me to someone needing two local appraisals, cash and all that. I cut a deal for the two, very grateful to Tanya, will go have lunch where she waits tables and leave a huge tip in appreciation for her referral.
I now know on the 28th in the morning they will operate on my trigger finger.
So the day goes, God has blessed me with a safe day in the little Civic a very pleasing car to drive and one that rewarded me with 35 mpg on the last tank! I've seen 4 properties, seen the doctor, eaten well, exercised and now even though there are a pile of reports to write I'm going to bed. I've done enough and I'm tired. Had another nice talk with my new friend as i drove today. She is very busy with her kiddos too, we share war stories, so fun.
Love to all
Tim
Breakfast of cereal, soy milk and a slice of the bread I baked last night.
Do research for day
Leave for El Cerrito at 8:30, arrive in El Cerrito at 9:30, promised lock box key is NOT there, phone calls later I am given the code to a backup box, get the key and go in, find little house, 616 sf with promised 2 bedrooms actually has one bedroom with closet and a door that opens into the next so called bedroom but lacks a closet but which is connected to the only bathroom. House is selling for $92,000.
Drive around in less than ideal neighborhood and shoot photos, always interesting experience!
Leave on time for Pittsburg for second appraisal, nice home, teen age daughter greets me and offers to carry the ladder, I let her as I'm not supposed to be lifting yet. Nasty attitude found in dogs in the back yard, eat appraiser! Hope the lease holds for a bit longer, it does.
Non english speaking mother offers me some great tasting orange juice. I drink bribes, love them.
Then time enough for lunch, GPS says Burger King is near so have a vege burger, side salad and ice tea, tastes great.
Off to Kaiser but park in wrong lot so a long walk later I arrive at surgery, sign in, pay $30 and am called in a minute later.
Surgeon is informative, yes I had a tumor that was cancer, path shows they got all of it, he prints me out a copy but refers me to oncology and GI for colonoscopy, they will call for appointment, great, I just love to prepare for these special moments!
Back into the car, buy a cookie from snack shop in Kaiser. Drive to Disco Bay and find person home early for appointment, see house, shoot comps, drive to second house, find lovely owner, I mean a really terrific lady, they manage condo's in Maui, interesting world indeed. Perfect house, as I'm leaving she says, wish her mom lived closer, would love to have her meet me! Nice thought.
Dark now and home to fix a little dinner, make a smoothie and set to work again. Jerry calls, Ray drops by, I catch a bit of Miami CSI while eating.
Spend evening fixing little things that have come up with past reports, one needs the patio sketched in, another needs sale price changed as buyer and seller have agreed to lower the purchase price, no reason given, someone is contesting a value, why didn't we give them a higher appraisal? I'll take a hard look and probably find them a couple more dollars.
Cold call, my wonderful house keeper Tanya has referred me to someone needing two local appraisals, cash and all that. I cut a deal for the two, very grateful to Tanya, will go have lunch where she waits tables and leave a huge tip in appreciation for her referral.
I now know on the 28th in the morning they will operate on my trigger finger.
So the day goes, God has blessed me with a safe day in the little Civic a very pleasing car to drive and one that rewarded me with 35 mpg on the last tank! I've seen 4 properties, seen the doctor, eaten well, exercised and now even though there are a pile of reports to write I'm going to bed. I've done enough and I'm tired. Had another nice talk with my new friend as i drove today. She is very busy with her kiddos too, we share war stories, so fun.
Love to all
Tim
Monday, November 14, 2011
Back in the saddle
What an incredible day. Started with a walk with Ken, then shower in blistering hot water, best moment of the day! Then breakfast, second best moment of the morning.
Then it was off to Oakley to do one, then to Antioch to do another, finally straight little houses, they pay the same but take half as long to prepare.
Home to begin writing them up, now with Steve's help three are out the door, one was due at 5 pm and I sent it at 4:47, stuff just kept coming up that needed attention.
Had a great talk today with friend I met at a BBQ, such an interesting person. Now its bed time, Ken says we walk in the morning. Then I hit the road for El Cerrito, then Pittsburg, then the surgeon at kaiser, then one back here in Discovery Bay and then the day will be over.
So thankful for health and for production. yea.
A very nice email appeared in my Outlook today, I'm sharing it because it makes me feel good, I think you'll understand when you read it.
Love to all
Tim
Hello Tim,
We returned from our vacation and found that a copy of the appraisal had been delivered. You did an excellent job. We have had appraisals in the past that were mostly just the taking of some measurements and a bit of neighborhood comparison. These are important, of course, but I could see that you had very carefully looked at everything and remembered what you had seen. You paid careful attention to everything.
We appreciated your work very much.
Thanks,
Brian & Mickie
Then it was off to Oakley to do one, then to Antioch to do another, finally straight little houses, they pay the same but take half as long to prepare.
Home to begin writing them up, now with Steve's help three are out the door, one was due at 5 pm and I sent it at 4:47, stuff just kept coming up that needed attention.
Had a great talk today with friend I met at a BBQ, such an interesting person. Now its bed time, Ken says we walk in the morning. Then I hit the road for El Cerrito, then Pittsburg, then the surgeon at kaiser, then one back here in Discovery Bay and then the day will be over.
So thankful for health and for production. yea.
A very nice email appeared in my Outlook today, I'm sharing it because it makes me feel good, I think you'll understand when you read it.
Love to all
Tim
Hello Tim,
We returned from our vacation and found that a copy of the appraisal had been delivered. You did an excellent job. We have had appraisals in the past that were mostly just the taking of some measurements and a bit of neighborhood comparison. These are important, of course, but I could see that you had very carefully looked at everything and remembered what you had seen. You paid careful attention to everything.
We appreciated your work very much.
Thanks,
Brian & Mickie
Sunday, November 13, 2011
What to say
Well this day has not been as productive as I had hoped. I've struggled to stay on track during periods of the day. As it is comp photos in Brentwood were shot, then a new order was inspected, well the house was, not the order. In Mountain House. A couple have purchased a home for their parents for the same money as a little apartment was costing in a city closer to the Bay, so here they have a 3,800 sf home with room for everyone and a safe street instead of parties and rock music all night where they lived before. Seemed a simple decision really.
I took a side trip to CostCo forgetting to purchase fuel, it was a dime cheaper there than here. But the cats have food for awhile, I found some cheap fish oil pills, been out for over a week! and some frozen blue berries which I like in smoothies and such.
The week ahead looks very busy. There is plenty of work to get done and very little time to do it. I still have no writer so I just have to do long hours.
This morning I decided it was time to quit letting myself off the hook and took a 3 mile walk in the 45 degree temps. It was good. Tomorrow Ken and I are walking together at 6:30 and then the day gets interesting, seeing a couple, writing up a couple and perhaps slipping up to Rohnert Park to get the spa heater, we'll see how the day progresses.
I'm hoping that we have a good week, that the lazy protestors go home and stop messing up our cities, that our nice president stays in Hawaii! One can wish.
Just want to thank all my friends for their help.
Love to all of you
Tim
I took a side trip to CostCo forgetting to purchase fuel, it was a dime cheaper there than here. But the cats have food for awhile, I found some cheap fish oil pills, been out for over a week! and some frozen blue berries which I like in smoothies and such.
The week ahead looks very busy. There is plenty of work to get done and very little time to do it. I still have no writer so I just have to do long hours.
This morning I decided it was time to quit letting myself off the hook and took a 3 mile walk in the 45 degree temps. It was good. Tomorrow Ken and I are walking together at 6:30 and then the day gets interesting, seeing a couple, writing up a couple and perhaps slipping up to Rohnert Park to get the spa heater, we'll see how the day progresses.
I'm hoping that we have a good week, that the lazy protestors go home and stop messing up our cities, that our nice president stays in Hawaii! One can wish.
Just want to thank all my friends for their help.
Love to all of you
Tim
Saturday, November 12, 2011
The girls enjoy Sabbath School
How nice it felt to be driving to Tracy this morning, the girls were dressed in their lets go to church dresses and chatted as we drove, finally Kallie said, could we have some music! Funny little comment and I searched until I found a kids program on a local religious channel. The songs were funny and Keanna recognized them from her days in VBS programs.
Luke was there today, a very cute little guy, grandson of Loren and Emily Dunston. There were other little children too and poor Kim had an interesting time trying to keep their attention as they tend to roam a bit. She did great and Kallie mentioned how much she enjoyed being there. Then we found Keanna and she had enjoyed her time as well even though Sylvia is off in Australia staring at birds!!
We then caught Olive Garden where we all enjoyed great eating. Afterwards we picked up the van as it had needed new tires and Nikki and Steve had them replace all four tires. I got to drive it home as it was not quite done when we arrived, Nikki took the Civic home with the girls and Kallie took a long nap.
This evening Steve and Keanna are at a 2 hour father and daughter dance with a Hawaiian theme. It seemed sort of funny as we have been there so many times, perhaps 20 or so, yet have very few clothes from there to wear. I've not heard how it turned out but Steve was game to give it a try.
Its been a very pleasant day weather wise and I've had a fire this evening. I found vege food at WinCo, I was amazed, never expected it there so had some fry chick this evening. Good stuff.
After Sabbath School today friend George handed me a sack filled with a variety of things for the girls to enjoy. It had books which they immediately read while we waited at Honda, there are CDs of the famous stories, there are plastic action figures and as we kept digging we came across more and more interesting things. The girls were thrilled, such a nice surprise. Thanks George and Yvonne.
Now its time to head to bed, in the morning its time to start walking again and I'm out of excuses.
Sending love to all,
Tim
Luke was there today, a very cute little guy, grandson of Loren and Emily Dunston. There were other little children too and poor Kim had an interesting time trying to keep their attention as they tend to roam a bit. She did great and Kallie mentioned how much she enjoyed being there. Then we found Keanna and she had enjoyed her time as well even though Sylvia is off in Australia staring at birds!!
We then caught Olive Garden where we all enjoyed great eating. Afterwards we picked up the van as it had needed new tires and Nikki and Steve had them replace all four tires. I got to drive it home as it was not quite done when we arrived, Nikki took the Civic home with the girls and Kallie took a long nap.
This evening Steve and Keanna are at a 2 hour father and daughter dance with a Hawaiian theme. It seemed sort of funny as we have been there so many times, perhaps 20 or so, yet have very few clothes from there to wear. I've not heard how it turned out but Steve was game to give it a try.
Its been a very pleasant day weather wise and I've had a fire this evening. I found vege food at WinCo, I was amazed, never expected it there so had some fry chick this evening. Good stuff.
After Sabbath School today friend George handed me a sack filled with a variety of things for the girls to enjoy. It had books which they immediately read while we waited at Honda, there are CDs of the famous stories, there are plastic action figures and as we kept digging we came across more and more interesting things. The girls were thrilled, such a nice surprise. Thanks George and Yvonne.
Now its time to head to bed, in the morning its time to start walking again and I'm out of excuses.
Sending love to all,
Tim
Friday, November 11, 2011
Whoops, I think I missed a night
Dear Family and Friends,
Jerry says I missed blogging last night, he is once again right. I was very intent on completing a report last night and getting ready for today, then the clock began to catch up with me and I knew today had to start at 6 am to get everything completed before I had to be in Brentwood at 10 am. So I was pretty much locked into the clock and I just totally forgot to write.
I did get up at 6 this morning and after a very hot shower I sat down here in the work chair and started cramming out work. Before long the research for the day was done and it was 7:30. Knowing I had to leave at 9:30 I waded into a million dollar relocation appraisal for San Ramon. At 9:30 I had made good progress and let the agent know the report would be filed today. So when the inspection of the Brentwood property was over I raced back home, completed the relo report and then left for Tracy for a 1:13 arrival. It was a tenant occupied property and I never want to cause renters grief as they get no benefit from the appraisal at all. This renter was very nice, the property was perfect and before long I was back in the car heading to Castro Valley, about a 45 minute trip.
The Castro Valley property was stunningly beautiful. It had a 180 degree view of hills, valley and even distant Mt. Diablo. The owner was a gentle lady with two teens who seemed to love life and enjoys her home. The home was large and measuring it took awhile, at that time of day I begin to slow down and I have to be more careful to make sure everything is covered properly. I did feel relief when the last comp photo was shot and I could head home. By then it was raining softly and as I was listening to a book the trip home went quickly.
This evening was so different than last week when Barb and Gerry were here. I found some whole wheat noodles, a can of soup and had a tasty meal. They had left a loaf of bread that was so good, I've stretched it all week having a slice now and then. I had another slice tonight and it was very good. I'll need to take note of the wrapper before I pitch it as I would like to locate another loaf from the same company.
I get to take the girls to SS in the morning. It will be fun to see them in action again, I know Keanna will miss Sylvia but she enjoys the rest of the crew and I know Kallie will love her program no matter who is in charge. I think there may even be an olive garden lunch there somewhere, hope so.
I am so thankful for the Sabbath time again. Must say that I'm back to full speed again, no extra pains and in spite of the surgeons phone call I feel pretty good. Yesterday afternoon the surgeon called to say that yes there was a tumor and it had a name, one I did not catch but it appears that they cut wide enough margins to have gotten all of it. I'll see an oncologist this coming week to be sure I guess. Seems quite different to be going to an oncologist myself, a first since it was always Nan before.
I want to once again thank all of you that called, sent cards, helped out in various ways. I do appreciate not being alone when something the appendix hits.
Love to all,
Tim
Jerry says I missed blogging last night, he is once again right. I was very intent on completing a report last night and getting ready for today, then the clock began to catch up with me and I knew today had to start at 6 am to get everything completed before I had to be in Brentwood at 10 am. So I was pretty much locked into the clock and I just totally forgot to write.
I did get up at 6 this morning and after a very hot shower I sat down here in the work chair and started cramming out work. Before long the research for the day was done and it was 7:30. Knowing I had to leave at 9:30 I waded into a million dollar relocation appraisal for San Ramon. At 9:30 I had made good progress and let the agent know the report would be filed today. So when the inspection of the Brentwood property was over I raced back home, completed the relo report and then left for Tracy for a 1:13 arrival. It was a tenant occupied property and I never want to cause renters grief as they get no benefit from the appraisal at all. This renter was very nice, the property was perfect and before long I was back in the car heading to Castro Valley, about a 45 minute trip.
The Castro Valley property was stunningly beautiful. It had a 180 degree view of hills, valley and even distant Mt. Diablo. The owner was a gentle lady with two teens who seemed to love life and enjoys her home. The home was large and measuring it took awhile, at that time of day I begin to slow down and I have to be more careful to make sure everything is covered properly. I did feel relief when the last comp photo was shot and I could head home. By then it was raining softly and as I was listening to a book the trip home went quickly.
This evening was so different than last week when Barb and Gerry were here. I found some whole wheat noodles, a can of soup and had a tasty meal. They had left a loaf of bread that was so good, I've stretched it all week having a slice now and then. I had another slice tonight and it was very good. I'll need to take note of the wrapper before I pitch it as I would like to locate another loaf from the same company.
I get to take the girls to SS in the morning. It will be fun to see them in action again, I know Keanna will miss Sylvia but she enjoys the rest of the crew and I know Kallie will love her program no matter who is in charge. I think there may even be an olive garden lunch there somewhere, hope so.
I am so thankful for the Sabbath time again. Must say that I'm back to full speed again, no extra pains and in spite of the surgeons phone call I feel pretty good. Yesterday afternoon the surgeon called to say that yes there was a tumor and it had a name, one I did not catch but it appears that they cut wide enough margins to have gotten all of it. I'll see an oncologist this coming week to be sure I guess. Seems quite different to be going to an oncologist myself, a first since it was always Nan before.
I want to once again thank all of you that called, sent cards, helped out in various ways. I do appreciate not being alone when something the appendix hits.
Love to all,
Tim
Wednesday, November 9, 2011
Keanna's team made the finals, briefly
This evening Keanna's team played in the playoffs. Within the first 30 seconds the other team scored but our little gals took turns freezing and playing and held them to 2 goals. Keanna had very cold hands after the game. I took a blanket, my chair and enjoyed the experience, bright lights beaming, team wet with dew. Its what families do and it felt very good.
Earlier in the day I met a friend at Starbucks for a whole wheat bagle and decaf mocha. We chatted and enjoyed our time of getting to know each other. I've known her on a limited basis for the past 20 years but she was with someone during those years so it was just business, now that person and she are no longer together and she is open for new friendships.
I spent the day cranking out appraisals, taking care of conditions and coping with not feeling all that great. I desperately need to get back into exercise as soon as I can. My body is screaming for it. Sometimes I wonder if all the times I've had to lift Starr has kept me from healing inside. I do have limited pain at the spot where they actually took out the appendix. I'll see my surgeon next Tuesday and find out a lot more.
Ray and Lois have gone back to San Jose so Ray can see his doctors as they plan for future surgery. It feels different when they are away since they look in on me so often and text messages all day long.
I'm just back from Safeway, told myself if I could write one more report tonight then I could go do my grocery shopping. So at 10 I emailed out the report and then I loaded up the car, cranked the heater, its 40 outside, enjoyed having the store to myself and snagged the items I'm wanting to have. Now back home and ready to take Starr up to her little bed for the night.
Take care my friends and family,
love
tim
Earlier in the day I met a friend at Starbucks for a whole wheat bagle and decaf mocha. We chatted and enjoyed our time of getting to know each other. I've known her on a limited basis for the past 20 years but she was with someone during those years so it was just business, now that person and she are no longer together and she is open for new friendships.
I spent the day cranking out appraisals, taking care of conditions and coping with not feeling all that great. I desperately need to get back into exercise as soon as I can. My body is screaming for it. Sometimes I wonder if all the times I've had to lift Starr has kept me from healing inside. I do have limited pain at the spot where they actually took out the appendix. I'll see my surgeon next Tuesday and find out a lot more.
Ray and Lois have gone back to San Jose so Ray can see his doctors as they plan for future surgery. It feels different when they are away since they look in on me so often and text messages all day long.
I'm just back from Safeway, told myself if I could write one more report tonight then I could go do my grocery shopping. So at 10 I emailed out the report and then I loaded up the car, cranked the heater, its 40 outside, enjoyed having the store to myself and snagged the items I'm wanting to have. Now back home and ready to take Starr up to her little bed for the night.
Take care my friends and family,
love
tim
Tuesday, November 8, 2011
Warm fire, cozy office, plenty of work to do
Dear Family and Friends,
The alarm went off at 6 but I decided I needed more rest. Once I did get up I found the day very depressing, so what does a guy do when depressed? He makes some success, accomplishes something. So Starr and I did the washing, built a nice fire using brother Jerry's wood and a nice piece of oak that has been waiting for a year to burn. The fire held all day and brought a chilly house up to 71, perfect to work. I've been in sweats all day, unshaved, slippers but this evening as I write I have the two oldest and most challenging appraisals completed and shipped out and one I saw Sunday is also on its way.
I was able to slip in pizza night with Lois and Ray, had a huge salad and brought most of the pizza home for the frig, a piece a day works well. The mails were disappointing, no money once again.
So I've just stayed pretty much in this chair all day. It takes a lot of discipline that comes very hard for me but with a stack of files looming one has to step up to the plate and take a swing or two.
Now its off to sleepy land and to prepare mentally for a 8 am meeting at Starbucks with a new friend, nope not talking at this point.
This evening I got a lead on someone who might be able to do writeups. I hope it works out as I want to get work done much more quickly and take advantage of the fact that there is work out there right now.
So I'm sending you a good night wish, sleep tight. And if you are reading Barbie and Gerry, thanks again for a wonderful gift of your time and help last week. What a huge blessing you were!
Love
tim
The alarm went off at 6 but I decided I needed more rest. Once I did get up I found the day very depressing, so what does a guy do when depressed? He makes some success, accomplishes something. So Starr and I did the washing, built a nice fire using brother Jerry's wood and a nice piece of oak that has been waiting for a year to burn. The fire held all day and brought a chilly house up to 71, perfect to work. I've been in sweats all day, unshaved, slippers but this evening as I write I have the two oldest and most challenging appraisals completed and shipped out and one I saw Sunday is also on its way.
I was able to slip in pizza night with Lois and Ray, had a huge salad and brought most of the pizza home for the frig, a piece a day works well. The mails were disappointing, no money once again.
So I've just stayed pretty much in this chair all day. It takes a lot of discipline that comes very hard for me but with a stack of files looming one has to step up to the plate and take a swing or two.
Now its off to sleepy land and to prepare mentally for a 8 am meeting at Starbucks with a new friend, nope not talking at this point.
This evening I got a lead on someone who might be able to do writeups. I hope it works out as I want to get work done much more quickly and take advantage of the fact that there is work out there right now.
So I'm sending you a good night wish, sleep tight. And if you are reading Barbie and Gerry, thanks again for a wonderful gift of your time and help last week. What a huge blessing you were!
Love
tim
Monday, November 7, 2011
Back in the field on my own
Good evening
Well its bed time all too soon. Where did the day go? This morning the alarm startled me awake at 6 am, I crawled out of bed because I can't stand to hear the sounds of my alarm and I keep it across the room. I found the room chilly and quickly located a big warm robe and slippers. With Starr in tow we headed downstairs to make a mocha and get her settled on her pad. I set her down with water to her left and food to her right. It works and when something is not right she tells me.
I set to work fixing things that had been put off too long. All too soon it was time to shower and get on the road. The trip to Walnut Creek was simple and beautiful with turning leaves everywhere. I took the Civic due to its automatic transmission, easier on my body at this point.
Once I located the home I was stunned. It was a eichler, a special kind of home but this one had a very special treatment, clear heart redwood siding, a huge skylight, a very special garage door and gurgling fountain. The owner came to the door and she was magic, a young designer who has created PF Chang restaurants and is now working on a private home that is 40,000 sf. The home had been transformed and was stunning, everything was done in modern chrome, bright colors, a gas fireplace burned at eye level, the kitchen was clean and worth $100,000. She was just as enchanting as the home and we talked of jazz singers, the arts, of beginning ones life over and of values in her neighborhood. Before long it was time to go but after a hot cup of coffee and dozens of photos I felt I had been to visiting a work of art.
Of course the comps I had prepared were worthless since they had remodeled the home from 1700 to over 2200 sf so I'll have to go back to the neighborhood for comps. It was a very nice way to start the day.
The second home could not have been more opposite. It was very lived in and needs a lot of help. Originally the trolley house for a rail line that moved people through that part of Oakland the home has a colorful history. Not so colorful now, just tired.
Finally I made it back home and this evening have created an appraisal, now its time to hit the sheets, those wonderful sheets!
Love to all
Tim
Well its bed time all too soon. Where did the day go? This morning the alarm startled me awake at 6 am, I crawled out of bed because I can't stand to hear the sounds of my alarm and I keep it across the room. I found the room chilly and quickly located a big warm robe and slippers. With Starr in tow we headed downstairs to make a mocha and get her settled on her pad. I set her down with water to her left and food to her right. It works and when something is not right she tells me.
I set to work fixing things that had been put off too long. All too soon it was time to shower and get on the road. The trip to Walnut Creek was simple and beautiful with turning leaves everywhere. I took the Civic due to its automatic transmission, easier on my body at this point.
Once I located the home I was stunned. It was a eichler, a special kind of home but this one had a very special treatment, clear heart redwood siding, a huge skylight, a very special garage door and gurgling fountain. The owner came to the door and she was magic, a young designer who has created PF Chang restaurants and is now working on a private home that is 40,000 sf. The home had been transformed and was stunning, everything was done in modern chrome, bright colors, a gas fireplace burned at eye level, the kitchen was clean and worth $100,000. She was just as enchanting as the home and we talked of jazz singers, the arts, of beginning ones life over and of values in her neighborhood. Before long it was time to go but after a hot cup of coffee and dozens of photos I felt I had been to visiting a work of art.
Of course the comps I had prepared were worthless since they had remodeled the home from 1700 to over 2200 sf so I'll have to go back to the neighborhood for comps. It was a very nice way to start the day.
The second home could not have been more opposite. It was very lived in and needs a lot of help. Originally the trolley house for a rail line that moved people through that part of Oakland the home has a colorful history. Not so colorful now, just tired.
Finally I made it back home and this evening have created an appraisal, now its time to hit the sheets, those wonderful sheets!
Love to all
Tim
Sunday, November 6, 2011
Good evening
This will be short
Long day, pain getting better, olive garden was great for lunch, body functioning better now
Love and appreciate my family and friends who have been very helpful
Still behind in getting things written up and seen. Did two inspections today, moved slowly but got them done. Does not feel good, would like to rest more.
Need to be up at 6 to prepare for day, seeing two tomorrow then home to do writeups.
Love
Tim
Long day, pain getting better, olive garden was great for lunch, body functioning better now
Love and appreciate my family and friends who have been very helpful
Still behind in getting things written up and seen. Did two inspections today, moved slowly but got them done. Does not feel good, would like to rest more.
Need to be up at 6 to prepare for day, seeing two tomorrow then home to do writeups.
Love
Tim
Saturday, November 5, 2011
The Family Gathers
Dear Family and Friends,
I slept in until past 9 this morning, perhaps I needed it. When I climbed out of bed and checked the email I found that Keanna was playing at 10:15 so one energy bar later and a hot mocha on the go I arrived. Now I did move very fast but enjoyed seeing Keanna scamper over the field and do her very best. But walking make something else happen and there was a porta potty there nearby to celebrate it.
I drove home just in time to meet Jason and Jo, then after a few minutes of discussion we headed for UNO's and had a wonderful lunch. It so much fun to have Timothy, Keanna, Kallie and Mia all at one table eating and having fun. It felt very meaningful to me to be there and enjoy their love. The little ones are frightened and fascinated by the little holes in my tummy where the surgery was done.
I've had no pain meds today but did take one yesterday afternoon. In the morning I see my first house at 9:30 in Clayton, a 30 minute drive through the backroads, then I hurry over to Tracy to see another home. Once that is done I'll drive back home to work up some of the very important properties that need to be completed.
How can I begin to thank Barb and Gerry for their time spent here caring for me. They were fun, compassionate, helpful and guarded me helping me be safe. I miss them.
I also want to pay tribute to Ray and Lois who drove me home from the hospital after the surgery. What kindness to drive all the way out there and bring me home.
Now I'm ready to get back to walking again, back to the club for spin class and ready to regain my strength.
I've heard many sad tales of others who had bursting appendix and three week stays in the hospital. I'm very grateful to the excellent staff at kaiser who did everything just right.
Sending love to all,
love
Tim
ps Steve hope the jaw is better, root canals are no fun!
I slept in until past 9 this morning, perhaps I needed it. When I climbed out of bed and checked the email I found that Keanna was playing at 10:15 so one energy bar later and a hot mocha on the go I arrived. Now I did move very fast but enjoyed seeing Keanna scamper over the field and do her very best. But walking make something else happen and there was a porta potty there nearby to celebrate it.
I drove home just in time to meet Jason and Jo, then after a few minutes of discussion we headed for UNO's and had a wonderful lunch. It so much fun to have Timothy, Keanna, Kallie and Mia all at one table eating and having fun. It felt very meaningful to me to be there and enjoy their love. The little ones are frightened and fascinated by the little holes in my tummy where the surgery was done.
I've had no pain meds today but did take one yesterday afternoon. In the morning I see my first house at 9:30 in Clayton, a 30 minute drive through the backroads, then I hurry over to Tracy to see another home. Once that is done I'll drive back home to work up some of the very important properties that need to be completed.
How can I begin to thank Barb and Gerry for their time spent here caring for me. They were fun, compassionate, helpful and guarded me helping me be safe. I miss them.
I also want to pay tribute to Ray and Lois who drove me home from the hospital after the surgery. What kindness to drive all the way out there and bring me home.
Now I'm ready to get back to walking again, back to the club for spin class and ready to regain my strength.
I've heard many sad tales of others who had bursting appendix and three week stays in the hospital. I'm very grateful to the excellent staff at kaiser who did everything just right.
Sending love to all,
love
Tim
ps Steve hope the jaw is better, root canals are no fun!
Friday, November 4, 2011
Very interesting week
Dear Family and Friends,
The week started out normal enough, inspect some, write some, schedule some and then it spun out of control. Pain started growing all day until when Jerry said go to the ER I just did.
In a few hours they were operating, what they found we still don't know completely. I'll learn more next week when I visit the surgeon. We know they found and removed grossly enlarged appendix, a mass or mucous plug and a piece of the colon. What I know is I have three holes in my tummy and a whole lot of residual pain when I laugh, cough or even just move from a sitting position to a standing one. The pain is less tonight but I took a pain pill this afternoon so I could handle the inspection.
Gerry was a great driver, took directions well and we located all the comparables we needed to find. He hates traffic which got me to thinking I used to hate it too but having lived with so much of it for so long I hardly notice when things have stopped, due to the XM radio, the books friends load onto the ipod and regular radio plus long talks on the phone with friends I just cope with traffic, move when I can and stop when I can't move. I despise the commute lanes, they are totally unfair to the 50% of drivers that do not commute to work but work on the road all day every day, those of us who can't double up with someone in the car get the shaft.
Tonight I'm grateful for the help that Barb and Gerry have given me all week long. Great food, great company, funny memories, kind gestures and support have been the everyday repast.
Tonight they are home tucked in their own little beds.
Tomorrow Jason and Jo with kiddos are coming to see me, I can't wait and I think we'll hit the park, watch ducks on the back deck and catch up. Jason has had a tough week too with CT scans, chest Xrays and antibiotics now started.
This week Steve went to the dentist and ended up across town having a root canal, talk about no fun and a huge bill besides. Then he had to crank out reports while under the intense pain that followed.
So now the Sabbath is here and peace reigns.
Love to all and thanks for your many prayers and expressions of support.
Tim
The week started out normal enough, inspect some, write some, schedule some and then it spun out of control. Pain started growing all day until when Jerry said go to the ER I just did.
In a few hours they were operating, what they found we still don't know completely. I'll learn more next week when I visit the surgeon. We know they found and removed grossly enlarged appendix, a mass or mucous plug and a piece of the colon. What I know is I have three holes in my tummy and a whole lot of residual pain when I laugh, cough or even just move from a sitting position to a standing one. The pain is less tonight but I took a pain pill this afternoon so I could handle the inspection.
Gerry was a great driver, took directions well and we located all the comparables we needed to find. He hates traffic which got me to thinking I used to hate it too but having lived with so much of it for so long I hardly notice when things have stopped, due to the XM radio, the books friends load onto the ipod and regular radio plus long talks on the phone with friends I just cope with traffic, move when I can and stop when I can't move. I despise the commute lanes, they are totally unfair to the 50% of drivers that do not commute to work but work on the road all day every day, those of us who can't double up with someone in the car get the shaft.
Tonight I'm grateful for the help that Barb and Gerry have given me all week long. Great food, great company, funny memories, kind gestures and support have been the everyday repast.
Tonight they are home tucked in their own little beds.
Tomorrow Jason and Jo with kiddos are coming to see me, I can't wait and I think we'll hit the park, watch ducks on the back deck and catch up. Jason has had a tough week too with CT scans, chest Xrays and antibiotics now started.
This week Steve went to the dentist and ended up across town having a root canal, talk about no fun and a huge bill besides. Then he had to crank out reports while under the intense pain that followed.
So now the Sabbath is here and peace reigns.
Love to all and thanks for your many prayers and expressions of support.
Tim
Wednesday, November 2, 2011
The pain is real, friends and family are better
Good evening,
What an interesting day. I was concerned about how I would be able to sleep last night, well I guess I worried about it for a couple seconds and then I slept the night away, at 7 something I woke and needed to visit the bathroom, that is when the pain hit. Getting up seemed impossible but of course I made it and got to the bathroom but was diappointed, no real action took place. Then I drifted back to bed and the next time I woke was past 8 am. That time I got up to stay.
Barb and Gerry were very helpful during the day, we had a great but simple breakfast. Shortly later I shuffled through the kitchen to discover gleaming sinks, so white and perfect, counters were clean, wow Barbie knows how to clean.
Gerry swept the garage and tidied up outside and at 12:45 we went to pick up Keanna. She was delighted to see Gerry and Barbie. After she did her homework she and Barbie drove to Brentwood to the dollar store, Dollartree and they had a blast. Keanna purchased a very thoughtful card for me, I mean it was just perfect. She said other cards did not have the right message and this one did. She got a coloring book for Kallie and little Christmas boxes to store things.
Eventually they came home and Keanna was so pleased to give me the card. This evening Lois and Ray came over with water mellon and ice cream and we enjoyed time together. Right now Ray is helping Barbie get her new laptop up and running. It is a beautiful machine but challenging.
LeAnn came over this afternoon to check up on me, I wish I knew all she knows about eating and doing the right things for diabetes. Kens latest numbers came down a lot, great news.
Tomorrow we venture out, we have to see a place in Sac and then in Roseville. Pretty sure I'll be tired before I get home and so will Gerry.
Sending love to all, will be glad when I don't hurt with every move.
Tim
What an interesting day. I was concerned about how I would be able to sleep last night, well I guess I worried about it for a couple seconds and then I slept the night away, at 7 something I woke and needed to visit the bathroom, that is when the pain hit. Getting up seemed impossible but of course I made it and got to the bathroom but was diappointed, no real action took place. Then I drifted back to bed and the next time I woke was past 8 am. That time I got up to stay.
Barb and Gerry were very helpful during the day, we had a great but simple breakfast. Shortly later I shuffled through the kitchen to discover gleaming sinks, so white and perfect, counters were clean, wow Barbie knows how to clean.
Gerry swept the garage and tidied up outside and at 12:45 we went to pick up Keanna. She was delighted to see Gerry and Barbie. After she did her homework she and Barbie drove to Brentwood to the dollar store, Dollartree and they had a blast. Keanna purchased a very thoughtful card for me, I mean it was just perfect. She said other cards did not have the right message and this one did. She got a coloring book for Kallie and little Christmas boxes to store things.
Eventually they came home and Keanna was so pleased to give me the card. This evening Lois and Ray came over with water mellon and ice cream and we enjoyed time together. Right now Ray is helping Barbie get her new laptop up and running. It is a beautiful machine but challenging.
LeAnn came over this afternoon to check up on me, I wish I knew all she knows about eating and doing the right things for diabetes. Kens latest numbers came down a lot, great news.
Tomorrow we venture out, we have to see a place in Sac and then in Roseville. Pretty sure I'll be tired before I get home and so will Gerry.
Sending love to all, will be glad when I don't hurt with every move.
Tim
Tuesday, November 1, 2011
Home again
Well thanks to wonderful friends I am home tonight. Do I feel great? Well no I don't. The offers of help were amazing and many phone calls came in from friends and business contacts.
This morning I drifted in and out, the surgeon made it clear that if I walked, could handle a normal lunch and could pass gas then I could go home this afternoon. The morning was a period of drifting in and out of awareness as I was still coming off the pain killers given during surgery. I determined to walk and did so several times. I also sat in a very comfortable chair for lengths of time and then would snuggle back under the covers and sleep more.
Lunch was strawberries, grapes, mellon slices, cottage cheese and ice tea. I ate it down rapidly and felt no bad side effects.
When the surgeon came in he brought me up to speed, turns out he had to take out more than just an enlarged appendix, he also had to remove a mucous plug or a mass as described in the surgery notes. In addition he had to remove a small piece of the colon. We'll know in a few days whether more surgery is required. The waiting is hard.
Mid day today Barb and Gerry Lammerding, long time friends from Lincoln City near Roseville, said they would like to come down and care for me. That was like a gift from God and they arrived this evening around 7. Moving about is very painful for me but I put together a little fire which we all enjoyed. They have moved in and are helping with Starr since I'm not suppose to lift mroe than 15 pounds.
Just now we were sitting in the family room watching a DVR of the latest Hawaii 5 0 and after sitting for that long the pain was pretty awful when I crawled out of the chair. I have three entry places for the surgery in my lower tummy and the entire area hurts like fire when I move or even when I don't move. As much as I dislike taking Vicoden I'm taking it tonight. With Gerry here I'll have a wayto get to appraisal appointments, he can drive and I'll just have to walk around the house inspecting and then back to the car. It is a huge help.
This afternoon Ray and Lois were kind enough to drive to the hospital and wait around until I was finally discharged. Then I rode home in Lois's very nice GMC Yukon, seats were soft, ride was smooth and Ray drove the Civic home. What a great help that was, to be treated is such a special way.
How I appreciate the offers of help from LeAnn and Ken, long time neighbors. Between Lois and LeAnn Starr was fed, watered and even had the heater turned on so she would not freeze last night.
I've heard from Art several times today and he has given me comfort and good advice, tonight Pam called and was shocked to hear what I had just gone through, she hopes to be able to stop by tomorrow evening. Of course Marilyn was shocked to learn what had happened and felt bad about not being here to help, who could have know what was coming last Friday when she left. At that point I felt fine.
Steve has been really terrific with his help on appraisals and he'll help more this week. Jason and Nikki have both been super supportive both last night and today.
Once again I'm reminded of how good God is as He supports His children through family and friends. Even Carol and Roger were supportive from far away North Carolina. Truely I am blessed.
I'm hoping I'll feel better tomorrow but I doubt it, I've found that the second day after surgery is often the worst day. I plan to stay home and do what work I can, then head back out to see properties on Thursday. I'm hearing stories of the old days when this surgery required a recovery time of days, even weeks so I need to keep myself patient and low key. If I had less work I would just take it totally easy but that is not possible.
Thank you for your prayers and for a wonderful Kaiser health system. This is how health care should be given, they have a super team.
Love to all,
Tim
This morning I drifted in and out, the surgeon made it clear that if I walked, could handle a normal lunch and could pass gas then I could go home this afternoon. The morning was a period of drifting in and out of awareness as I was still coming off the pain killers given during surgery. I determined to walk and did so several times. I also sat in a very comfortable chair for lengths of time and then would snuggle back under the covers and sleep more.
Lunch was strawberries, grapes, mellon slices, cottage cheese and ice tea. I ate it down rapidly and felt no bad side effects.
When the surgeon came in he brought me up to speed, turns out he had to take out more than just an enlarged appendix, he also had to remove a mucous plug or a mass as described in the surgery notes. In addition he had to remove a small piece of the colon. We'll know in a few days whether more surgery is required. The waiting is hard.
Mid day today Barb and Gerry Lammerding, long time friends from Lincoln City near Roseville, said they would like to come down and care for me. That was like a gift from God and they arrived this evening around 7. Moving about is very painful for me but I put together a little fire which we all enjoyed. They have moved in and are helping with Starr since I'm not suppose to lift mroe than 15 pounds.
Just now we were sitting in the family room watching a DVR of the latest Hawaii 5 0 and after sitting for that long the pain was pretty awful when I crawled out of the chair. I have three entry places for the surgery in my lower tummy and the entire area hurts like fire when I move or even when I don't move. As much as I dislike taking Vicoden I'm taking it tonight. With Gerry here I'll have a wayto get to appraisal appointments, he can drive and I'll just have to walk around the house inspecting and then back to the car. It is a huge help.
This afternoon Ray and Lois were kind enough to drive to the hospital and wait around until I was finally discharged. Then I rode home in Lois's very nice GMC Yukon, seats were soft, ride was smooth and Ray drove the Civic home. What a great help that was, to be treated is such a special way.
How I appreciate the offers of help from LeAnn and Ken, long time neighbors. Between Lois and LeAnn Starr was fed, watered and even had the heater turned on so she would not freeze last night.
I've heard from Art several times today and he has given me comfort and good advice, tonight Pam called and was shocked to hear what I had just gone through, she hopes to be able to stop by tomorrow evening. Of course Marilyn was shocked to learn what had happened and felt bad about not being here to help, who could have know what was coming last Friday when she left. At that point I felt fine.
Steve has been really terrific with his help on appraisals and he'll help more this week. Jason and Nikki have both been super supportive both last night and today.
Once again I'm reminded of how good God is as He supports His children through family and friends. Even Carol and Roger were supportive from far away North Carolina. Truely I am blessed.
I'm hoping I'll feel better tomorrow but I doubt it, I've found that the second day after surgery is often the worst day. I plan to stay home and do what work I can, then head back out to see properties on Thursday. I'm hearing stories of the old days when this surgery required a recovery time of days, even weeks so I need to keep myself patient and low key. If I had less work I would just take it totally easy but that is not possible.
Thank you for your prayers and for a wonderful Kaiser health system. This is how health care should be given, they have a super team.
Love to all,
Tim
It's over. Recovery
I'm a bit foggy on details. I know this young buck went in through my belly button and with his camera found the enlarged appendix and removed it.
I remember the anthesiogist telling me she would have to intobate while was awake. I don't remember doing it.
Next thing for me was waking in huge fog in recovery. Then we rolled to my room and I slept the rest of the night.
Now really awake. Only nasty shock is the bill. 1675 by Wednesday afternoon. That will be a stretch but somehow it will happen.
I may go home this afternoon.
Thanks for your prayers.
Feeling good, unless I move or cough.
Have a good day
Love tim
I remember the anthesiogist telling me she would have to intobate while was awake. I don't remember doing it.
Next thing for me was waking in huge fog in recovery. Then we rolled to my room and I slept the rest of the night.
Now really awake. Only nasty shock is the bill. 1675 by Wednesday afternoon. That will be a stretch but somehow it will happen.
I may go home this afternoon.
Thanks for your prayers.
Feeling good, unless I move or cough.
Have a good day
Love tim
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